Pat Mac Anally, the Irish Wedding Celebrant

The Irish Wedding Celebrant

Meet Pat Mac Anally

An Irish-born Gold Coast marriage celebrant who marries sixty to seventy couples a year and has conducted around 400 funerals — and brings all of it to the way he runs a wedding today. Registered with the Attorney-General's Department since 2016, No. A18208.

Registered celebrant since 2016 · No. A18208 · 60–70 weddings a year · ★ 5.0 on Google

From Ireland to the Gold Coast

Pat was born in Belfast. In 1962 his parents put eleven of them on a ship — Pat, his eight brothers and sisters, and the two of them — and they landed in Brisbane, where he grew up and was schooled.

The career that followed was spent with people in need, and mostly with people sleeping rough — the ones he and his colleagues at Rosies called the rough diamonds. A working life spent sitting down with strangers on the worst week of theirs, and getting them to talk. It is not the CV you'd expect behind a wedding, and it is exactly why the first meeting goes the way it does.

He registered as an authorised civil marriage celebrant in 2016, on the back of that work, and he's been marrying couples on the Coast ever since — sixty to seventy weddings a year, every year, for long enough that he has married the children of couples he married.

The ceremonies he conducts are civil ceremonies — religious, non-religious, or anywhere in between, as each couple wishes. What that volume of ceremony work leaves you with is everything a wedding actually needs: the storytelling, the calm, and the knack of making a roomful of people feel like they're in good hands.

What funerals taught Pat about weddings

Funerals taught Pat the half of this job nobody puts in a package list. It's an odd thing to find on a wedding page, and it's also the reason the weddings work:

Every one of those shows up in your ceremony. That's why the history is on this page — not because it's colourful, but because it's the reason the ceremonies work.

And one thing it did not teach him: how to be the main event.  Pat still conducts funerals → Pat will hold the room for fifteen minutes and then hand it straight back. Your wedding never becomes the Pat Mac Anally show.

What you stop having to think about

One part of your wedding you don't have to worry about.

Planning a wedding is mostly open loops — unanswered emails, half-finished decisions, forms nobody has explained. Every one of them lives in your head until it's closed.

From the day Pat is booked, this is a closed loop. The legal paperwork gets done at the first meeting, correctly and early. The script arrives weeks ahead, so there's nothing to chase. The rehearsal means nobody has to remember an order of events. And on the day, whatever goes sideways gets handled at the front of the room by a man who's seen it before.

You'll always know what's happening next — and if you don't, you'll know who does.

Why Pat works the way he does

The Old Friend Method

A celebrant who has met you once is reading about strangers. Pat decided he would never stand in front of a couple's family holding a stranger's story. So: three meetings, every couple, every package.

I.

He listens

— and finishes the legal paperwork early.

II.

You read your ceremony

Written, weeks ahead. You edit it.

III.

The rehearsal

No surprises on the day.

Kerry Biddington named the result better than any brochure could: "on the wedding day it felt like seeing an old friend."

How the Method works in full → · Looking for a male celebrant? →

Credentials, plainly

Pat Mac Anally's Master of Counselling testamur from the University of Notre Dame Australia, awarded at Fremantle in December 2003
Master of Counselling, the University of Notre Dame Australia — awarded at Fremantle, December 2003. The testamur is issued in Pat's full legal name, Patrick MacAnally.

The garden in Benowa

If you still need somewhere to hold it — you can have Pat's garden. That's not a venue he rents out for the day. It's his home: a private garden he tends himself, which has been the backdrop for dozens of his couples' weddings and elopements. No venue fee.

Micro weddings in the garden → · Elope in the garden →

Pat Mac Anally's ceremony garden in Benowa
The bit nobody puts in a package

He keeps bees at the bottom of that garden.

Which is how a number of his couples have ended up going home with a jar of his honey.

It isn't advertised, it isn't included in anything, and Pat has never once mentioned it in a quote. It just turns up in the reviews. One couple used it as their wedding favours. Another wrote that he "gave us a beautiful gift of honey from his very own beehive." A third thanked him for it by name in front of their guests.

We mention it here for one reason only: it is the kind of thing a person does when the wedding is not, to him, a job that finished when the paperwork was signed.

The couples who mentioned it, in their own words →

The best way to know if Pat is your celebrant isn't this page.

The best way to know is twenty minutes of talking to him — free, and mostly him listening.

Or call: 0409 120 350

In other people's words

Sixty-odd weddings a year leaves a paper trail.

Fifty-three couples have written about Pat on Bark and Easy Weddings — 5.0 on both. He has replied to every single one, which is its own kind of evidence. Read all 53 →

Or see 48 of the ceremonies →